Nemo88 needs advice please

[Nemo88]

Ok,so as most of you know,I have a girlfriend who I am 100% faithful to,w've been together for 4 and a half years.I love her,shes my best friend and my girl,shes incredible.

With that said,I started this new job about 6 weeks ago and Ive had problems with this one latina girl pretty much from day 1.She started off with a little flirting,which is no big deal,then she started writing me flirty notes and leaving them on my desk,started to ask me to hang out and when I denied her request because I had to hang out with my GF or something,she would get mad.

Now,shes taken it a step further,now shes very very touchy with me,jumping on my back for piggy back rides,tries to give me very close very looong hugs,plays with my ears,tries to sit on my lap and asked to kiss her one day (which of course I did NOT do).Its very hard for me to turn her down cuz shes very much my type,ethnic girlie who wears high heels daily and hoop earrings,but I stay strong and resist.Is this God trying to test me? lol its cruel!! lol

Basically I dont know what to do,Ive told her so many times I cant go there becasue I have a GF,but she continues to do it.I think shes a pretty girl,and shes very cool,I dont want to get her in trouble with our boss,but I dont know what else to do...does anyone have any advice for me? its really putting a strain on my current relationship and just stressing me out overall.

Thanks.

[Mickeyman187]

It seems as if you kinda want to do something with her, but I don't think you should. You would just destroy your long-lasting relationship for a new tease.

Just keep ignoring her. She obviously needs attention and she's evil because she KNOWS you are taken, but she still goes forward with her flirting.

Maybe sue her for sexual harrasment? :-)

[WallyBoag]

Let me help you out, Nemo.

What's her phone number?

[mark]

You'll probably deal with temptations like this most of your life- especially after you get married, if you do! LOL! (It's true.)
How you handle this will set a pattern for how you handle the rest.
Does your current girlfriend know this is going on? I'd see what she has ro say about it...

[Nemo88]

It seems as if you kinda want to do something with her, but I don't think you should. You would just destroy your long-lasting relationship for a new tease.

Just keep ignoring her. She obviously needs attention and she's evil because she KNOWS you are taken, but she still goes forward with her flirting.

Maybe sue her for sexual harrasment? :-)

yeah I will admit I am tempted by her because shes very attractive.So in that respect your right,I wouldnt mind something with her under the right circumstances.However considering my circumstances with my long term relationship I dont want anything from her,if that makes sense lol

and yes,she IS evil,she knows I am taken and the more I tell her that the more she comes on stronger,its like she feeds off of it.

[Nemo88]

You'll probably deal with temptations like this most of your life- especially after you get married, if you do! LOL! (It's true.)
How you handle this will set a pattern for how you handle the rest.
Does your current girlfriend know this is going on? I'd see what she has ro say about it...

yes ive been completley honest with my current GF about this,she knows about everything,which I felt was the right thing to do.

Its funny how stuff like this only happens when your taken,this couldnt have happened when I was single! lol nooooo.

[WallyBoag]

So what's her phone number?

[suttytx]

Politely ask Cinder to leave you alone.

[dlfreak]

^and tell her to return Smitty's hoop earings.

Seriously though it technically is sexual harrassment... it's just on the other side of the coin. If you switch the roles she'd be slapped with a suit lickety-split.

It's a pretty big decision for you since you seem to be interested so you have to weigh four years of a relationship vs. maybe starting something new. And that's something you ultimately need to deal with and decide but you should not stay for another four years (or days) if you don't feel as strongly as you may have used to.

Good luck.

[Nemo88]

^and tell her to return Smitty's hoop earings.

Seriously though it technically is sexual harrassment... it's just on the other side of the coin. If you switch the roles she'd be slapped with a suit lickety-split.

It's a pretty big decision for you since you seem to be interested so you have to weigh four years of a relationship vs. maybe starting something new. And that's something you ultimately need to deal with and decide but you should not stay for another four years (or days) if you don't feel as strongly as you may have used to.

Good luck.

see thats my prediciment,I still feel as strongly about my current GF,I am just being tempted (physically) by this latina girl because shes coming on to me so strongly.

Its like Im fighting with everything I got inside me to resist this latina girl,and so far,I have.But I wish she'd stop becasue its very very hard for me to keep resisiting.In all honesty I feel like Im at a Strip Club with my hands tied to the chair,and I am told I cant get a lap dance from any of the girls,as the prettiest girl in the club is asking me every 3 minutes for a lap dance lol its hard as hell to keep that resistance up.Thats how I feel right now.Even the happiest of guys would have a tough time resisting